Memorable Maryami

Just need a friend

memorable-maryami — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:58:18 GMT

*I wanna talk to sb but I have nothing no say in fact.
So I talk to myself, over & over.. repeating the same things. the same stories.. Sometimes I feel nervous.. sometimes worried.. worrid about things which are none of my business.. I\ve nothing to do with many many things around me but I dont know why I insist on being involved.. I\ve got used to be.. to be.. I\ve no idea what I can name it.. but most of the time I'm thinking about it.. I don\t know exactly about what.. Maybe about sth. important! Important! You see? Everything is important in my world! even small thing that no one else can see or touch.
I'm annoyed.. I feel alone & I like this feeling.. Where's my "8 ketaab"?
I open the book, seeking for familiar sentences which make me smile :)

Poem.. One of the most lovely thing in the world.. I like to smile when I'm reading a poem. I think of Sohrab.. What he was thinking of when he was writing that poems? I like know the answer someday..

I need a travel.. to somehere far.. with a friend.. to talk.. to run.. to play.. to see the moon.. to see a movie together.. to live.. to laugh.. to cry.. to chew a gum.. to hold hands walking in a street.. I feel alone.. I need a travel.. I just need a friend.. forever..

Lost

memorable-maryami — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:52:18 GMT

*Lost is an interesting serial.. for example the views: sea, sky, jungle..
Number of people, the matter that each guy - like real world - is really different from the other ones & of course all are the same in some cases.

They face the same thing in different ways, they help each other, work together & sometimes they seem absolutely weak.
Everyone has a past & a story.. When you watch one part, you wanna know who they are, what are their names, what kind of guys they are, what will happen then, etc.

But 2 things are not normal & look somehow odd:
1. You see people when they are asleep or taking a shower but not while they are eating! They talk about food they behave as if no one eats there. At least I have'nt seen it already.

2. All actors & actresses are slim, handsome, beautiful.. having colorful clothes with themselves!
And they have wonderful make-ups.. So you won't see any color on their skins!

*I want to Rey City this afternoon. Mum & dear sister said: "How can you go somewhere alone? Wom't you get bored?"
It was freezing but I had worn too warm clothes to feel it.
The first thing I wanted God as soon as I arrived was sth. to eat! :D
When I bought a Hi-Bye, I saw wooooooow! Somewhere near the shrine, people are drinking tea. To tell you the truth, they were killing themselves with free tea (nazri!)

After I got in, I saw most of the doors of shrine are closed beause they can control the crowd & pilgrims better that way.. But some guys who didn't know the ways well got confused. One of them was shouting I wanna go out ... ... ... guys. (Beeeeeeeeep) Why did you close the door?
Somebody answered: That door is oprn.

... ... ... (Beeeeeeeeeeeeeep) came the answer!

I was sitting on the stairs - I love them all the time - I put the prayer book next to me to write a sms to a friend of mine.
An old woman was crossing, she touched the book seriously, then she put her hand to her face & kiss it. Then continues her way..
I was thinking what did it mean?
Then I remebered some of my classmates were used to kiss the entrance doors of shrine as soon as getting in! Thus I said nothing :D

All

memorable-maryami — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 14:53:18 GMT

*What about translating all my Farsi weblog?!
I'll get blind without doubt!

Evil

memorable-maryami — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 18:47:18 GMT

Does evil exist? Did God create evil?
The University professor challenged his students with this question.

"Did God create everything that exists?"
A student bravely replied, "Yes he did!"

"God created everything?" The professor asked.
"Yes sir", the student replied.

The professor answered, "If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principal that our works define who we are, then God is evil."

The student became quiet before such an answer.
The professor, quite pleased with himself, boasted to the students that he had proven once more that the Christian faith was a myth.

Another student raised his hand and said, "Can I ask you a question professor?"

"Of course", replied the professor.
The student stood up and asked, "Professor does cold exist?"
"What kind of question is this? Of course it exists. Have you never been cold?" The students snickered at the young man's question.

The young man replied, "In fact sir, cold does not exist. According to the laws of physics, what we consider cold is in reality the absence of heat. Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-460 F) is the total absence of heat; all matter becomes inert and incapable of reaction at that temperature. Cold does not exist. We have created this word to describe how we feel if we have no heat."

The student continued, "Professor, does darkness exist?"
The professor responded, "Of course it does."
The student replied, "Once again you are wrong sir, darkness does not exist either. Darkness is in reality the absence of light. Light we can study, but not darkness. In fact we can use Newton's prism to break white light into many colors and study the various Wave lengths of each color. You cannot measure darkness. A simple ray of light can break into a world of darkness and illuminate it.

How can you know how dark a certain space is? You measure the amount of light present. Isn't this correct? Darkness is a term used by man to describe what happens when there is no light present."
Finally the young man asked the professor, "Sir, does evil exist?"
Now uncertain, the professor responded, "Of course as I have already said. We see it everyday. It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil.

To this the student replied, "Evil does not exist sir, or at least is does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light."

The professor sat down.
The young man's name: Albert Einstein

Meaning

memorable-maryami — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 15:11:18 GMT

*Raha has made me lazier than before with her nice english e-mails:

So long I never realize I don't know the real Meaning of family. Here Is The Answer:
FAMILY=
(F)ather
(A)nd
(M)other
(I)
(L)ove
(Y)ou

*WHY does a man want to have a WIFE?
Because:
(W)ashing
(I)roning
(F)ood
(E)ntertainment

*WHY does a woman want to have a HUSBAND?
Because:
(H)ousing
(U)nderstanding
(S)haring
(B)uying
(A)nd
(N)ever
(D)emanding

*Do you know that a simple "HELLO" can be a sweet one?
The word HELLO means:
(H)ow are you?
(E)verything all right?
(L)ike to hear from you
(L)ove to see you soon!
(O)bviously, I miss you...

30 QUALITIES FOR SUCCESS

memorable-maryami — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 15:05:18 GMT

*30 QUALITIES FOR SUCCESS

1. Honesty
2. Humor
3. Friendliness
4. Confidence
5. Integrity
6. Persistence
7. Humility
8. Goal Setter
9. Decisive
10. Hard Worker
11. Learner
12. Positive Mental Attitude
13. Compassionate
14. Disciplined
15. Dedicated
16. Faithful
17. Dependable
18. Knowledgeable
19. Communicator
20. Loving
21. Motivated
22. Patient
23. Loyal
24. Organized
25. Good Listener
26. Empathetic
27. Self-Respect
28. Common Sense
29. Character
30. Enthusiastic

Why we love men

memorable-maryami — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 08:41:18 GMT

We love men because they can’t fake an orgasm, even if they wanted to.

Because they will never understand us, yet even so they go on trying.
Because they still manage to see our beauty, even when we ourselves no longer believe it.
Because they understand equations, politics, maths and economics, but not the feminine heart.

Because they are lovers who only rest when we have had (or pretend to have had) pleasure.
Because they are never afraid of the dark.
Because they insist on fixing things that are beyond their capacity, and dedicate themselves to this with the same enthusiasm as an adolescent, and get frustrated when they don’t succeed.

Because they never comment on what the neighbors might think.
Because we always know what they are thinking, and when they open their mouth they say exactly what we imagined they would.
Because they never dreamed of torturing themselves wearing high heels.

Because they love to explore our body and conquer our soul.
Because they do absolutely everything possible to try to hide their weaknesses.
Because a man’s biggest fear is not being a man (it never crosses a woman’s mind not to be a woman).

Because they always eat everything on their plate, and don’t feel guilty about it.
Because they take great delight in completely uninteresting matters, such as what happened at work, or different makes of automobiles.
Because they have shoulders where we can rest our heads and sleep without much effort.

Because they are at peace with their bodies, except for small, insignificant things like growing bald and getting fat.
Because they are incredibly courageous in front of insects.
Because they never lie about their age.

Because despite everything they try to demonstrate, they can’t live without a woman.
Because when we tell one of them “I love you”, they always ask us to explain exactly how.

Ant sth. really interesting about women:

Women are equipped with X-ray vision. We can look at hard, dark eyes and discover the child hiding behind them.
We can stare at angel-blue eyes and discover the demon that lies there.

New

memorable-maryami — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 08:42:18 GMT

Its Madness - To hate all roses, because you got scratched by one thorn. To give up all your dreams, because one did not come true. To lose faith in prayers, because one was not answered. To give up on your efforts, because one of them failed. To condemn all your friends, because one of them betrayed. Not to believe in love, because someone was unfaithful. Remember that, another chance may come up. A new friend, A new love, A new life. Never give up on anything!

Why we love women

memorable-maryami — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 08:42:18 GMT

Because they smile every time they pass a child.
Because they are bold in bed, not because they have a perverse nature but because they want to please us.
Because they do everything necessary for the house to be tidy and perfect and never expect any recognition for the work they have done.

Because they don’t complain about the sacrifices they make for the sake of the ideal of beauty, facing up to waxers, Botox injections and menacing machines in gyms.
Because if they want to know something about their own appearance, they ask other women and don’t bother us with this type of question.
Because they have their own ways of solving problems which we never understand and that makes us mad.

Because sometimes they complain about things that we feel too, such as colds and rheumatic pains and then we understand that they are people just like us.
Because they write love stories.
Because they are capable of going to work dressed like men, in their delicate little suits, whereas no man would ever dare go to work wearing a skirt.

Because they manage to fake orgasms with the same artistic quality as the most famous and talented of movie stars.
And I would add: we men love them for being women. As simple as that.

How to be interesting without saying a word

memorable-maryami — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 17:19:18 GMT

Sth. really interesting & of course useful:
How to be interesting without saying a word:

Have you ever looked at someone and just felt that they were an interesting person?
The answer is yes. So listen! :)

There are two aspects to communication: verbal and non-verbal communication.
Here I'm talking about non-verbal communication, also known as body language. If you want to appear attractive, then your body language has the power to communicate that. If you want to appear lazy, boring, or unattractive, then you adjust your body language accordingly and others will immediately begin judging you as lazy, boring, or unattractive. Your body language has the power to influence and communicate what you want – in our case, how to be interesting.

There are 3 simple but powerful body language tricks to make yourself appear more interesting :D but don't forget: You should practice!

1. Gooey Eyes

Eyes have always been important to humans. Without eyes, human communication relies on sounds. Without good eye contact, communication can be destroyed. Excellent eye contact is powerful in giving the message that you are an interesting person.

How?
Look at the person as per normal, but keep the eye contact going a little longer than you normally would. Just before you turn your head down, to the side or to someone else’s eyes to break the eye contact, maintain eye contact for a bit longer by peeling your gooey eyes off the person as you turn your head. Peel your eyes off the person like a sticky toffee being lifted from the surface.

It shows the person you are confident enough to make strong contact. The technique also communicates that the person has something about them that other people do not see!

If you are a guy and want to appear attractive to a lady, make an effort to never look away from her until she loses eye contact with you. Women love slow, meaningful body language.

2. Illuminating Smile

Most of us are well aware of a good smile’s influence, yet many people wonder how a good smile is done.
Seeing only a smile makes you feel better. Likewise, seeing a person frown makes you feel worse. It is a magical brain-to-brain connection that links humans in an almost mystical way. You can make people feel good, make yourself feel good, and make yourself look good by cultivating an illuminating smile.

But how to smile well? If you can build positive emotions inside yourself, a true smile will show on the outside.
After one second of good eye contact with someone, “turn up” your smile. Begin with a little smile, slowly increasing it over two seconds until it becomes a big smile. So, from the initial eye contact to your largest smile will total about three seconds.

3.Capitalizing Posture

A good posture is often associated with being tall, high status, strong confidence, and power. A capitalizing posture will be like buildings in a capital city. This doesn’t mean you need to be like a giant (me :)) to have good posture. Far from it. It is about focusing on being erect and using your posture the best you can. It’s time to put an end to having a posture that is more like The Leaning Tower of Pisa than a strong, stable structure.

All you need to do is lift your chest up. That’s it! Your head will rise, your neck will straighten, your shoulders will drop back, and your back will straighten – all by lifting your chest! This is a capitalizing posture.